I am 87 years old: if you cannot live alone, before going to a care home, consider these alternatives.
comfort ever can.
How you can do this too
If you or someone you love is in a similar situation, try this:
Be honest about what you can’t do alone anymore
Medication, cleaning, shopping, safety, transport, cooking, paperwork.
List what you can still offer
Listening, cooking, childcare, watering plants, receiving packages, companionship, repairs, teaching.
Look around you
Neighbors, local shop owners, friends—help is often closer than you think.
Propose fair exchanges
Don’t ask for rescue—offer mutual support.
Stay organized
Use a planner or calendar to keep everything clear.
Communicate openly